Stranger Anxiety In Infants

Your little girl who was once outgoing and the most friendly baby you would ever want to know has suddenly shyed away from grandma so what happened to her?

Your baby has reached a new developmental milestone, its her first fear. As your baby becomes older, she is more aware of her surroundings there may be a change in her behavior. Although young infants under the age of six months generally do not exhibit "stranger anxiety" and will feel secure with almost anyone. However,usually around the age of eight or nine months , your baby will begin to discern between you and a stranger. Quite often she will be hesitant about going into the arms of a stranger, she may turn away, lay her head on your shoulder and hold onto you tightly. The fear of strangers will usually subside by the age of one year or so. However, there is a smaller percentage of babies whom never experience "stranger anxiety" and have the ability to adapt to new situations easily.

Tips for helping your baby

If your baby is anxious in a social situation do not force her to be social. Simply allow her to adjust at her own pace. Allow her to become comfortable in the situation.

Avoid leaving your baby with a complete stranger. If you have to leave your baby with a new caregiver, then plan on having them arrive at least 20 minutes early. This can help make the transition of you leaving easier.

Inform the person that your baby is anxious~ this helps them to understand your baby's behavior change.

Develop an "approach strategy" that works with your baby by suggesting the best way to win her over; perhaps instead of immediately picking her up: start with a smile, talk to her and allow her to begin to feel comfortable first.

Keep in mind that your baby is unique and has her own emerging personality. She will come around in time.